Flame
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My Heartbreaking Story About My Third Break Up
Hey everyone! This is Flame here A.K.A. El.
You all have been asking for the full story of my break up with Flame (I was Mrs. Flame).
So today I finally decided to open up and share the juicy stuff.
In November 2025 I made an account on Khooji chat rooms and I instantly became popular with the boys and I didn't even know why. One guy in particular had this CUTE anime profile picture and I kinda......fell in love with it. I told him, "I think I'm falling for your pfp". He responded, "How about you fall for me instead?" Obviously he was trying to joke around but we had already clicked and fallen for each other. We never admitted it but kept talking casually. On the second or third day of talking we moved to private messages and I suddenly blabbed about how much I liked him and his personality and how I thought we clicked, matched, were meant to be. He was very shocked but I was surprised to find out that he felt the same way about me. He took me on an online date and then after that he asked me to be his girlfriend. Of course I accepted and we loved each other so much, it was literally heaven when I got to be around him. Let me mention that he lived in the UK and I lived in the USA so the time difference was 6 whole hours. He was so handsome and his eyes were so dreamy...I don't know why he thought he was ugly. Fast forward to December. We were married (pretend) and I knew EVERYTHING about him. He knew EVERYTHING about me. I noticed he stopped coming online as much and that didn't really bother me because I knew he had tons of school work and exams to study for. Of course my needy little ass needed him a lot more than I expected. I wanted to feel that love and comfort that only he offered. I very rarely was feeling those feelings at that point. Then the "LoneRanger" incident came up and I was forced to face reality. HE WAS NOT THERE. I needed him. Simply needed him and yet.....in that moment of peril the one person whom I trusted wasn't there for me. I opened my eyes and decided to end the relationship for the benefit of what was good for me. I left him a few text messages the night of the incident and told him goodbye. The next day I opened my private messages and I burst into tears when I read his texts. He was shocked, dismayed, humiliated, and sorry. He called himself the "shittest bf ever" and left. He changed his profile picture and added the chorus from "Arcade" by Duncan Laurence to his bio. We've only talked a few times before since the break up. His brother died the day after I left him and he told me that he was going to commit suicide. I spent hours begging him to stay and live but he wouldn't listen. He already had depression from being in foster care, losing his parents, having his dog die, etc.
I miss him every day, and I miss our relationship. I did was was best for me though and now I am happily with another guy who will hopefully love me better. I hope this story was insightful. I don't know what else y'all want to hear next. Maybe my online grooming experience story? Love you all so, so much. Thanks for reading this.
El :3
Hey everyone! This is Flame here A.K.A. El.
You all have been asking for the full story of my break up with Flame (I was Mrs. Flame).
So today I finally decided to open up and share the juicy stuff.
In November 2025 I made an account on Khooji chat rooms and I instantly became popular with the boys and I didn't even know why. One guy in particular had this CUTE anime profile picture and I kinda......fell in love with it. I told him, "I think I'm falling for your pfp". He responded, "How about you fall for me instead?" Obviously he was trying to joke around but we had already clicked and fallen for each other. We never admitted it but kept talking casually. On the second or third day of talking we moved to private messages and I suddenly blabbed about how much I liked him and his personality and how I thought we clicked, matched, were meant to be. He was very shocked but I was surprised to find out that he felt the same way about me. He took me on an online date and then after that he asked me to be his girlfriend. Of course I accepted and we loved each other so much, it was literally heaven when I got to be around him. Let me mention that he lived in the UK and I lived in the USA so the time difference was 6 whole hours. He was so handsome and his eyes were so dreamy...I don't know why he thought he was ugly. Fast forward to December. We were married (pretend) and I knew EVERYTHING about him. He knew EVERYTHING about me. I noticed he stopped coming online as much and that didn't really bother me because I knew he had tons of school work and exams to study for. Of course my needy little ass needed him a lot more than I expected. I wanted to feel that love and comfort that only he offered. I very rarely was feeling those feelings at that point. Then the "LoneRanger" incident came up and I was forced to face reality. HE WAS NOT THERE. I needed him. Simply needed him and yet.....in that moment of peril the one person whom I trusted wasn't there for me. I opened my eyes and decided to end the relationship for the benefit of what was good for me. I left him a few text messages the night of the incident and told him goodbye. The next day I opened my private messages and I burst into tears when I read his texts. He was shocked, dismayed, humiliated, and sorry. He called himself the "shittest bf ever" and left. He changed his profile picture and added the chorus from "Arcade" by Duncan Laurence to his bio. We've only talked a few times before since the break up. His brother died the day after I left him and he told me that he was going to commit suicide. I spent hours begging him to stay and live but he wouldn't listen. He already had depression from being in foster care, losing his parents, having his dog die, etc.
I miss him every day, and I miss our relationship. I did was was best for me though and now I am happily with another guy who will hopefully love me better. I hope this story was insightful. I don't know what else y'all want to hear next. Maybe my online grooming experience story? Love you all so, so much. Thanks for reading this.
El :3
and also I don’t think putting his personal life issues on a chat forum is a good idea. But you do you